Monday, October 23, 2006

A face to remember

I have a very forgettable face. A little like the kind you see in badly drawn cartoons. Typically, this is what happens when I meet someone for the first time:As I approach him, he will see my face and feel completely unaffected. He will then try to take a moment to register my face in his mind, and fail miserably. So, he looks up at me a second time. Then a confused, third glance, even as I flash an awkward smile and say, "Hi, I'm Rajesh". He tries to succeed where probably hundreds have failed before. Absent-mindedly, almost apologetically, he will figure he hasn't introduced himself, and proceed to finish the avoidable formality. Avoidable, because after all, he is never going to recognize me if we do meet again - even if he runs into me again in the next few minutes.

It's another forgetful day of my life today. If only I could forget how easily people forget my face. I get up from the table where I was pretending to read Einstein's relativity. I walk a few steps to the mirror and look straight into my face. There's nothing missing: a large nose flanked by two blank eyes wide open on either side. A thin upper lip overlooking two pairs of teeth protruding above a bulging brownish lower lip. A few pimples dotting a greyish stubble, and two perfectly normal ears. Now, I begin to think, the fact that there's nothing missing on my face makes it so regular, so much of the ordinary and the average that there is nothing of it that one could remember, much less recollect.

Satisfied with this explanation, I walk over to the balcony lazily. As I stare into the evening sky, I see a few birds fly across right in front of the perfect circle of the orange sun. In that instant I also see a face: a bird with wings spread wide make the shape of a nose on the face of the sun, two birds for the eyes, two for the lips, and the rest of them for hairlocks. A face at once so beautiful in its natural formation that I captured its startling beauty in my mind to remember it for ages to come. The bird that formed the nose of the face was probably a millionth of the radius of the sun. Yet in my mind, it wasn't. Relativity, I told myself. Life's lessons come to us not when we are poring over tomes, but when we allow ourselves to get lost in utter admiration of what the world has to offer.

Back in the toilet, I wash my face, and for the first time I observe that my left eye actually is the right eye of the face in the mirror! It was shocking at first, sort of phantasmagoric. After closing my eyes for a moment and taking a deep breath, I look back and run the index finger on my left hand slowly over my left eyebrow, and watch the face in the mirror trace the movement just the same, only with his right hand on the right eyebrow. I'm sweating now, oh God! The face that I see in the mirror could not be the face that people see when they meet me. A terribly simple realization. I walk out slowly as if in a daze and hear some music playing from my brother's room. I push the door and see him sleeping on the floor. As I turn around to go, I see a small hologram on a sticker on the closet door that reads: Use your illusion.

Is the mirror an illusion? I wonder. I walk into the kitchen to drink a glass of water. The small stainless cup feels oddly cold against my nervous fingers as I fill water into it from the water filter. I would have most certainly gulped it down with my eyes closed as I always do, but no!, today, I wouldn't. I see grotesque forms of my face approach me menacingly as I bring the cup closer to my mouth. And a string of rumbles and a final glug later, I am no longer thirsty, still every bit as confused.

I try to rub it all off! Mom and Dad must be coming back home in half an hour, I realize. A cursory look at the clock tells me I have about twenty minutes to play cricket and get back home before them. And the next thing I know, I am running down the stairs. Three leaps to a flight. Four flights to the ground floor. Nineteen minutes and five friends to play with. Thirty runs, two wickets and a diving catch in twenty-eight minutes sure sounds like an all-rounder to me. Need to rush home now. I sprint out of the park and just as I run around the corner, I quickly glance back a moment to see if my parents are anywhere in sight. Thud! And I am lying on the ground, and so is a small girl. I ran straight into her. I get up, dust my elbows and knees and get up to see if she is allright. She is not crying, only a grimace on her face. I lift her up, and say sorry. She looks beautiful, I think, but she is not looking at me. She says an involuntary "Thanks" and bends down to the ground groping. "I'm sorry", she says, grabbing a small stick in her hand. That's when I see she is blind. I'm in a shock. She quietly taps the stick on the ground firmer now, and walks on smiling. I stand there in disbelief. Not because I ran into another person who will not remember my face. Maybe because I realized the beauty in her face would stay with me forever, and yet she could never realize how beautiful she was. Or perhaps because, she finally taught me how to forget the fact that I had a forgettable face.

Friday, August 11, 2006

A coffee-shop story

He steps into a coffee shop.
I come to the US chasing the American dream.
At the coffee store, he is asked what he would like to have?
As I live the American life, some friends ask me about my plans for the future.
"Small, medium or large?" they ask him from across the counter.
I usually mumble that I need a life.
He doesn't know what to say, can't make up his mind.
I fall silent, a bit too dazed myself.
He looks around and there's already a small queue behind him.
I wonder briefly what is meant to happen next.
He says a perfunctory "No thanks!" and walks out awkwardly.
Wish I could take the next flight to India.

Thursday, May 18, 2006

I love you....because

I love you
because

we share common interests like gardening, and crosswords,
where I like the words that go down, and you the ones across

I love you,
I love you because,

although marriage is a not-for-profit institution
its simply better not to make a loss

I love you, oh so,
I love you because,

you're rich and I'm gorgeous, and together
we can hear them say the oohs and the aahs

I love you, I do,
I love you because,

our love will be like a roller-coaster with remote control;
so we can skip the lows, and in the highs we can pause,

I love you,I love you,
I love you because,

Though I don't like your siblings,
your parents will make nice in-laws

I love you,I love you,
I love you because,

you're impatient and I'm understanding,
and if all the world's a stage, our play can be a farce

I love you, love you, love you,
And I love you because,

you'll lead your your life, and I'll lead mine
there'll be total independence and nothing to call ours.

Thursday, February 23, 2006

An Autobiography of an Afterthought - Part I

I take birth in the mind of every man and woman - now and again. But my genetic parents are Doubt and Forgetfulness. You know, people find it hard to believe me when I tell them that the all-dreaded Fear is my uncle. He is a nice old fellow, jolly as ever; but his brand of humour is a little too strong for kids sometimes. Poor mothers and fathers, they themselves have a hard time comprehending my uncle's little idiosyncasies. It's really too much to expect the kids to face up to him.

As for me, I like my work. Though I pride myself in being extremely fair and unbiased in choosing my unuspecting victims, without even the slightest consideration to faith, wealth or social status, I must confess I do have a few favourites, like the indecisive or the really instinctive minds. I relish the moments when I appear in a dilly-dallying or a quick-thinking mind at the most innopportune instant - without warning - and spin it into a whirlpool of thoughts. These are a little bit like holidays for me, if you will, after all my machinations during the year.

It would be against my ethics to divulge any details about my modus operandi to anyone outside our clique, but I am sure, you - the reader - are quite intrigued about how I materialise into your mind with clockwork precision. And I do not want to disappoint you either. Perhaps, the best way of balancing my professional integrity and popular demand would be by describing to you an actual real-life day in the office for me. An hour at work would be more appropriate, I think.

Let's consider, now, uh- um, let us take a girl in an examination hall. All right, so here she is: Maya, a student in the sixth grade in St. Ann's School, Secunderabad in India. She is quite bright and is currently in the middle of her Mathematics examination, and she is presently seated in the first row of classroom 105 of her school building. In fact, as we talk, she seems to be slightly nervous about a question in the exam. Algebra and all that. Thankfully, I never had to do any of that. Well, returning to Maya, we can see that she is a little tense now, nibbling at her pen a little, trying to remember a formula or something, eh?Her mind is agitated because she looks at her watch and finds that she has a little more than 10 mins to finish the paper, and she has still to finish one question. Is this a good time? Maybe, but do remember that I am not satisfied just with good timing, but perfect timing. This is going to be an exciting one: let's see what the question is about. Ah, she is having trouble deciding on which question to answer - she has a choice, you see, answer one of the two; there you go, choice does you humans more harm than good doesn't it ? We, on the other hand, just love to see you go blank in your small moments of truth.

Maya has a choice between answering a question on geometry and a question on algebra. She normally feels intuitively comfortable with adding the x's and playing with the x-squared's, but this problem seems a stiff challenge. Geometry, of course was never her favourite, or her strong point - they both mean essentially the same thing to you humans, right? Maya thinks that this particular geometry question seems misleadingly simple. Now, what is she going to do. I do not know about you, dear reader of my autobiography - but I am loving every moment of this, so do pardon my grandiloquence. Remember - indecisiveness brings out the best in me.

Maya, in the meanwhile has almost decided to play it safe, she is just about to make up her mind to attack the algebra problem with gusto. Her reasoning cannot be faulted - she is more likely to get partial marks for this question, because she knows she can get around the algebra a little bit. Yes, now she has decided for good, she has started working on it, neatly copying down the question in its entirety onto her answer sheet, as her Mom probably taught her. A good start.

All right, let us talk of something else for a minute, give her the time to make some progress, and sure enough we will get back to her at the perfect instant. You know, I quite hate to call this an autobiography - it's too short for that and further,it's a real-time account; besides, it raises your expectations oh-so-high. And I don't blame you for that, but I do hope you that will see there are more compelling reasons why I cannot write a full-blown account of my exploits, my secrets, my worries (yes, I have them too!) and all the other juicy stuff. But, if you notice I called this Part I of my story, there's surely another one following suit. Now, then: where's Maya? Bingo! Perfect! She has indeed paused at a critical point of her answer, this is the tough part it seems.

This is the moment I choose to seize her. Now, watch. At first, she scratches what she wrote in the previous line, then she holds the question paper up in her left hand, and reconsiders whether she would be better off doing the geometry question instead. She stops for a few seconds and looks around to see if there are any tense faces in the classroom. She briefly wonders how Shalini is doing in the exam. Will she outscore Shalini this time? How tough can it be to prove that the sum of two sides of a triangle will always be greater than the third side? She feels guilty that she didn't really spend too much time revising the geometry theorems. The pressure tells on her.

She opens a fresh sheet and starts to attempt the geometry problem. Again, neatly copying the statement of the question, she draws a nice triangle beside it. A,B and C, she writes. Goes on to write a few more lines. Pause again. The fingers gripping the fountain pen firmly, the sweat on the pen notwithstanding. The tip of the pen almost pierces the answer sheet, and then she continues to write, "If ABC is an equilateral triangle, we know that all the sides are equal. So AB=BC=CA. Therefore, AB+BC = 2AB > CA. Proved." She smiles, pauses; something's amiss. The bell rings. The teacher starts collecting the papers from the far end of the room.

I strike again. Maya thinks of something - she should try using x-cubed minus one rather than x-cubed plus one - she quickly flips back to the previous sheet. She starts writing in ugly large characters, in a hurry: x-cubed minus one. "Maya, please hand over your papers". She feebly replies, "Yes, ma'am".

You feel sorry for her, don't you. As much as I enjoy my work, I sure feel sorry for her too, but I've got a job and I do it. As Maya walks out of the classroom now, a pale expression of disappointment visible on her pretty face, another girl rushes up to her from behind. "Hey Maya, did you solve the last question?", she says curiously.

"No, ya Shalini, I did a little bit in the geometry part, but I couldn't finish the algebra one. I had just realised how to do it, and the time was up",Maya uttered sadly.

"Oh, how did you solve the geometry problem? I couldn't think of any way to prove it. And I couldn't do much of the algebra problem too. Tough questions,yaar."

"I took an equilateral triangle. I don't think I will get full credit for that."

Before you forget it's my story and not Maya's, I see a great moment for me to enter Shalini's mind now as she says, "Oh, no! I missed it. I read it yesterday. I remember it now, tchhhhha! The textbook said the complete proof is out of syllabus for sixth class, but we can prove it using an equilateral triangle."

And I felt glad when I saw a hint of gleam in Maya's eyes, as she said her bye-byes and ran into the arms of her Mom, waiting for her.

Sometimes, the wind blows your way. Sometimes it doesn't.




Thursday, February 16, 2006

The sober shades of sadness

It comes in several colours. Silent and white. Loud and red. An all-encompassing black.

Unfathomably deep, incurably sick; yet, so ruthlessly powerful.

Moments of intolerable grief. A calm outside that betrays the storm inside. A volcano waiting to erupt - into tears. A test of faith? Endurance? Strength?

It is like a marathon on burning coal. It scalds and hurts with every step, and yet, I'm desperate to take it, because there's no where else to go.

A fight against hopelessness. A long journey to the next second. And the next. And the next.

It's an explosion of serenity,
Day after day,
Night after night,
Is this a labyrinth of insanity?

It's an escape from prison,
Only to find a deserted island,
It's a ladder that I climb,
As it falls into an abyss.

It's a countdown from infinity,
With no end in sight,
And no guiding light,
Is it the beginning of eternity?